Most of the time, the guy probably doesn’t even know. That’s why I sympathize with any woman trying to figure out how a guy really feels. It plays softly in the back of our heads, but most of the time, we’re barely listening. Emotion, especially the lovey-dovey stuff, is kind of like elevator music to us. It’s not that we can’t talk about our feelings-we just don’t even stop to think about them very often. Men aren’t always the best at expressing our emotions. “Alcohol is a suppressant, and the suppression of the central nervous system will cause a decrease in sensitivity to sexual cues,” Paduch adds. Animal studies have shown that high volumes of alcohol caused the penis to contract, says Paduch, which is the opposite of what should be going on during sexual arousal (but, you knew that already). One to two drinks a day decreases the risk of cardiovascular problems-a major cause of ED. Surprisingly, a little alcohol can actually help men with ED. In these cases, simply losing weight can help with sugar control and get the signals to these nerves going again. Plus, high sugar levels in men with diabetes can affection the function of the nerves in his penis, says Paduch. Lowering cholesterol can help increase a man’s testosterone levels, so diet is crucial when it comes to sexual function. You might want to skip the latest comfort food joint on date night in favor of these better-sex foods. Plus, a great sweat session will boost his testosterone, which can help rev up his desire. Of course, physical activity is a great way to lose weight and decrease obesity, but it also helps a guy feel better about himself, making him feel even more confident with his clothes off. “A few weeks ago a patient told me that when he goes to the gym regularly, his sex drive is much better and if he stops, it goes down,” recalls Paduch. You know that fit women have much better sex, but the same is true for guys. Of course, sleep deprivation affects sex drive as well so Paduch urges his patients to get enough shuteye each night. This is because sleep apnea will interrupt your sleep cycle, affecting the normal cycles of erections that happen during the night. If they say yes, I have him evaluated for sleep apnea,” says Paduch. “When I see a patient with ED, I ask his partner if he snores. If you notice your man’s morning wood has gone MIA, it might be because of his sleep patterns. For that reason, he first suggests men change their diets and lose weight when they are having erectile issues. Men who are obese have much lower testosterone levels, “which obviously plays a major part in sexual function,” says Paduch. Maintaining a healthy BMI may help your guy get his mojo back. Here, five modifiable factors that can improve a guy’s erections without a prescription: “These men are often able to go off of medication without seeing a decrease in their sexual function.” “I’ve seen patient’s sexual function improve with healthy lifestyle changes and consistent healthy habits,” says Paduch. He warns that sexual dysfunction in men is often caused by something that is also life threatening-namely, cardiovascular problems. He has plenty of patients in their thirties and forties, “and with them, I suggest they make changes in their lifestyles,” says Paduch. When they followed up with these men after five years, they found that the guys whose habits and health improved over time tended to see an improvement in sexual function.Īnd although this study mostly looked at older men, erectile issues commonly occur in younger men, too, says Darius Paduch, M.D., urologist and male sexual medicine specialist at New York-Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center. The participants were also asked about their overall health-things like weight, alcohol intake, physical activity, depression, and sleep. Then they assessed the men’s erectile function using another questionnaire. The researchers used a questionnaire to collect data on their sexual desire, sexual activity, and sexual preferences. In this longitudinal study, researchers analyzed 765 men between the ages of 35 and 80 in Australia, with the majority of the men on the older end of the spectrum. In fact, there are several modifiable factors-like weight, alcohol intake, and physical activity-that can help improve erectile function, too, according to a new study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Erectile dysfunction isn’t only treated with a little blue pill.

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